Men vs. Women #9 Work #5 Sexual harassment

Men vs. Women #9 Work #5 Sexual Harassment – I’ve had several conversations with different women, and I can’t believe that I, as a woman, end up feeling sorry for men. Poor men. And do you know why? Because women have learned to lie. They know how to lie. This assertion could be discussed further in the context of social psychology, which shows that both men and women employ social strategies like impression management for various reasons. However, the claim that women “have learned to lie” here refers to how some might manipulate victimhood status. And now, they are taking advantage of their former victim status. Women were the victims of men’s aggression and discrimination. And when I say aggression, you probably know that there are several types of aggression—physical, verbal, psychological, and social. Well, today everything has changed. For a while, men have become victims. The women, from victims, turned into aggressors.

A controversial topic that is a dilemma for many is sexual harassment. Unfortunately, nowadays, because of the desperation to protect themselves, everything can be considered harassment—and even more, can be considered sexual harassment. Why? Because some women, who had nothing to do, got bored and invented all kinds of things to annoy men. Or better said, to revenge themselves, and less for protection.

Why? Because a woman can do such a thing. Especially since she has the law and justice on her side. It is important to recognize that legal systems in many countries have evolved to better protect victims of harassment, but also that false accusations, while rare, do exist and complicate the social dialogue around this issue. I know many women, many types of women with different personalities, and I can say that if a man winks at a woman, it depends on the woman’s attitude. I’m sorry, my dear, but your body language sends signals to a man about how he can behave around you. How you dress, your gestures, also speak out. Even how you wear your makeup. If you dress like a whore, you will be treated like a whore. If you look vulnerable, they will take advantage of your vulnerability. Depending on the aggressiveness in your workplace, they will also take advantage of your innocence. Men are predators, and if you give them the opportunity, they will hunt you down. And you can’t change them. That’s their DNA.

From an evolutionary biology perspective, males of many species, including humans, often exhibit competitive and sometimes aggressive behaviors as part of mating strategies. However, it’s critical to distinguish between biological predispositions and socially conditioned behaviors, which can be modified through education and cultural norms.

If your workplace makes you feel uncomfortable, if you cannot cope with the challenges of your workplace—including the way your colleagues behave around you—if you cannot manage some situations that make you feel harassed, if you can’t expose yourself showing what kind of woman you are—you don’t belong there. You are not strong enough as a woman to face the men at your workplace. And I say this because many women have proven that they can be stronger and better than men. You can check the playlist "Men vs Women" and you can understand that I am on the women’s side. And I think that women can be stronger than men. But if you feel harassed and can’t face them, you don’t belong there. That job is not for you.

Because of my point of view, I was crucified worse than Jesus. So, a woman is allowed to come to work in a short skirt, high heels, to show off her body shape, and look like a prostitute, and men have to wear a suit? I’m surprised that men haven’t complained about being discriminated against. But you should wait a few decades. Because they will come back as aggressors and it will be much worse than it was before—much more aggressive. And that’s because victims turn into aggressors all the time. And for women, it will be much worse than it was before. So enjoy this freedom you have now and expose your skirts and your ass, scream out loud that it’s a skirt, not a yes, because you can do this now. Future generations—even if it is a more distant future—will not be able to behave the way you behave. That’s what women who feel offended by what I am saying can’t understand. You can’t change men. You can’t change their way of being. You can’t change what’s in their DNA. You can’t turn them from aggressors into kittens—even if some of them are much more feminine than some women. But this is genetics, and let’s not complicate things and talk about chromosomes, estrogens, and testosterone.

Scientific studies have shown that hormones such as testosterone can influence aggressive behavior, but environment, upbringing, and personal choice play crucial roles. It is overly deterministic to reduce complex human behaviors solely to biology, although biological factors provide a baseline predisposition.

You, as a woman, instead of acting smart, you act like you are offended. I asked my girlfriends what they would do if they were the CEO of a company, and their male assistant came to work in stretchy clothes, and everyone could see his biceps, his triceps, six-pack abs, and a well-worked ass? Why do women have the right to dress provocatively and men not? What should you do as a woman if you don’t want to be humiliated because you end up working in a unisex environment? Or end up feeling ashamed or harassed because of the way a man is looking at you? Or because, without intention, you show that you are stupid—on top of that, you are dressed provocatively? You should adopt the same attitude as men and dress like them. If you complain that you are being harassed, you pose as a victim. Sorry, this is the truth. And this is a label that does not make you a strong woman or a woman who knows how to manage a behavioral problem well. Instead of being a victim, what if you learned how to assert yourself and how to impose respect?